I’m one of those rare women who has a serious lust/attraction for men who look hot cross-dressing. I hesitate to even call it a fetish because I don’t want to offend anyone. I started getting slack-jawed over feminine hair-metal musicians as a kid, and then it really took off once adolescence hit. I’m convinced I was born this way. I’m also very bisexual, and I’ve had relationships with both men and women, but none that lasted.
I’m here because I’d love a hot cross-dressing boyfriend. Fit men in lingerie, heels, wigs, makeup, and dresses are what gets my motor running. One of my hottest fantasies is both of us in naughty lingerie making love. It’s only recently I’ve fully realized and embraced this about my sexuality. Anymore: Fuck what “society” and other people think.
A bit about me: I’m 43, never married (came close once), no kids by choice, about a 50/50 split between CD men and feminine bi/lesbian women. I’m not attracted to trad-masc men, tomboys, butches, FtM, and similar. We can always become friends, in fact that would be awesome, but that’s as far as it would go. In fact, sometimes I can’t look at an attractive man without picturing what he’d look like in lacy thigh-highs, a garter belt, heels, and an under-bust corset ;)
I work full-time for an international telecom company. 9-5 hours, and I have no complaints about it. In fact, I like it. Outside of work, I lift free weights, roller-skate, hike, sing, and teach myself keyboards. Oh yeah, loving cats is a must! I have two who are my babies who happen to have fur🐈🐈
Out of the bedroom: I love rock/metal concerts, movies, and club nights. My ideal first date would be going to a small local band’s performance, after getting a couple of drinks before.
I know this site is mostly BDSM, and I’d like to bring in little light dominant play with him if he was willing. It’s not the main thing, but it could add some spice. Thanks for reading, and please feel free to add me!
